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How should I handle a viewer's request to be my friend?

Recently, a subscriber who frequently engages with my videos asked if we could be friends. This made me uncomfortable because I prefer to keep my private life separate from my online persona, especially since they are quite young. I declined their request politely, but now I feel guilty as they seemed disappointed. Given my own experiences with loneliness during adolescence, I'm torn about how to balance my boundaries with my desire not to hurt this viewer's feelings. What should I do?
audreyalvaradoaudreyalvarado

Answers (3)

I completely understand your concern about keeping your private life safe. As a content creator, it's essential to establish boundaries. One suggestion is to create a separate Discord server for your community. This way, you can interact with your subscribers in a controlled environment without sharing personal information. It allows you to foster connections without compromising your privacy.
andrea80andrea80
It's crucial to maintain your boundaries for both your safety and mental well-being. You could consider directing the subscriber to a platform where you can engage without personal exposure, like a public Discord or other social media accounts. By doing this, you can create a community space where everyone feels welcome, and you can interact without the pressure of one-on-one friendships.
michael01michael01
If you're worried about the age difference and potential risks, I suggest keeping your social media restricted to adults only. This helps create a safer environment and minimizes the risk of inappropriate interactions. You can still engage with your audience but do it in a way that protects you and your viewers.
xharrisxharris

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